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The mysteries vanish and life becomes clear when we realize that we are all insane. . Twain Mark.
I know what its like to feel depressed by your insecurities or to feel so overwhelmed by life that youve lost your sense of self. Just a few hours ago I was in exactly the same situation as you. that I was the only one caught in a tangle of feelings.
I believed that I was the only one who hoped for more out of life. It was my belief that the obligations I already had and those I would soon have to shoulder consumed me alone. It causes pain.
Since I am just like you I understand how you feel. However I am sharing my thoughts with you in order to relieve myself of these burdens. I feel better carry less weight and am stronger when I share my insights.
Avoid enjoying pain that isnt appropriate. For some reason we enjoy the fact that we are facing the world alone as though our objectives are far more significant than those of everyone else. My goal is to be successful.
I want people to remember me. Ill win. Nevertheless when this occurs we bear the full weight of our problems on our own shoulders making each day more difficult.
I also like to bear my own burdens I feel like Im getting stronger as a result of this suffering. Actually its the other way around. Developing a myself against the world mentality in life may seem admirable but it actually weakens us.
Our suffering increases when we suppress it. And because we fail to see that suppressing our pain only makes it worse we continue until we reach our lowest point. Those who share are the best and brightest.
It is important to recognize that those who are loved remembered and achieve their desired outcomes did not get there alone. As much as I hate to say it I am worthless on my own. I dont possess any authority glory or unique position in society.
Even the so-called gurus who appear to have a great deal of power and influence are not very valuable on their own. One person can possess all of the worlds knowledge but if he keeps it to himself he is just as stupid as everyone else. When they reach their desired destination people always share—be it information value or burdens.
Do you really believe that one man started and ran these massive businesses around the world? He may have led the movement but he needs the support of others to advance. It is highly unlikely that Mary Shelley wrote all of those copies of Frankenstein herself.
To get her message out there she needed the assistance of a group of publishers and copiers. To be human means to share. Some people will tell you that carrying your own problems shows strength while admitting when you need help is a sign of weakness.
Dont listen to them. Being human means sharing which is what has gotten us this far. What it means to be truly strong is to share your passions with those who will support you to reminisce with those who were there for you and to share laughter and joy in the midst of suffering.
Please share your thoughts below if you have anything to share such as a humorous story you once enjoyed a struggle you overcame or a story from your past.
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