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One Quick Tip to Transform Your Interactions Right Now

Stop being reactive... Recently Ive had a lot of success using this tip when conversing. Ive been non-reactive to things that would normally set off my ignoramus-alarm making me yell shout and generally lose my cool. In order to be totally non-reactive you need to take just three actions. 1. Hold off before responding. Take a moment to consider the circumstances that might be thrown at you. A kind of unwritten social norm states that you must respond to inquiries from others quickly and effectively. Actually there is no need for this. If I dont answer quickly enough theyll think Im stupid being rude etc. is an example of thinking that you should stop trying to accommodate the person you are speaking with. ) and take it slow. 2. Keep your feelings to yourself. You are free to leave any pointless conversation tense dispute or needless argument that you might unintentionally be persuaded to join. When feelings are involved tensions can increase and hurt feelings can occur. Maintain emotio...

A Test of Controlling Your Emotions

It is very hard to control emotions. They are the cause of this since they have influenced our behavior since the day we were born. If we were craving ice cream we would request it and if we wanted a new shirt we would go buy one. This blog post probably wouldnt have been written if I hadnt felt like writing today. This is more than enough evidence on its own. I believe that the majority of us are emotional slaves. Its not a bad thing then. Do not hesitate to give in to your emotions if it feels good to do so. We have been doing that for a while as you can see. Sadly we have become so used to allowing our emotions to flow freely that we have forgotten to set boundaries. For example there are instances when someone will purposefully provoke your anger in order to watch you lose control. It is comparable to how we make people laugh by telling a funny joke or performing a comical act. In either case we wind up doing things we never meant to do saying hurtful things we dont mean or becomin...

Be More Than the Average Person

Results are very good for those who go above and beyond the norm. The man who works diligently every day is paid the most while the man who works only during the weekdays is paid his regular salary. As the competition practices at specific times throughout the week never deviating from their schedules the girl who attempts her hardest dances without boundaries and puts passion into every twirl jump and hip movement will become a master of the dance arts. People in our society only do the bare minimum while others go above and beyond what is required. People typically dont feel comfortable being or doing more than they already are. They will exert every effort to avoid appearing uncomfortable strange or self-conscious. All of these things are how they end up looking in the process. Few people have the courage to be authentic. People who are like that will do whatever they want whistle while they walk and paint the boring and uninteresting to turn it into art simply because they feel lik...

How to Reclaim Your Childlike Confidence

Our childhood has passed us by. We lived freely and innocently without regret or accountability from the time of our birth until the height of our youth. The empowerment of confidence followed this freedom and innocence. the certainty that we would obtain anything we desired in life. the realization that we have to act in order to obtain anything. the awareness that we held the power to control fate. For a time we held onto this confidence. We would eventually rest on the pinnacle of our happiness despite having moments as kids when we were timid and afraid of the change that would come with having the confidence to try new things and explore new worlds (like the zoo the playground and the grocery store to mention a few). The joy that accompanied self-assurance is what made youth so valuable and worth embracing. An old fool is unlikely to attempt a handstand because he is almost positive that if something goes wrong his back will feel uneasy. But she will definitely try if you even sug...

When You Feel Completely Overwhelmed, Always Share

The mysteries vanish and life becomes clear when we realize that we are all insane. . Twain Mark. I know what its like to feel depressed by your insecurities or to feel so overwhelmed by life that youve lost your sense of self. Just a few hours ago I was in exactly the same situation as you. that I was the only one caught in a tangle of feelings. I believed that I was the only one who hoped for more out of life. It was my belief that the obligations I already had and those I would soon have to shoulder consumed me alone. It causes pain. Since I am just like you I understand how you feel. However I am sharing my thoughts with you in order to relieve myself of these burdens. I feel better carry less weight and am stronger when I share my insights. Avoid enjoying pain that isnt appropriate. For some reason we enjoy the fact that we are facing the world alone as though our objectives are far more significant than those of everyone else. My goal is to be successful. I want people to remembe...

How to Take Back Your Summer: Test Your Assumptions

Most college students summers typically include these four activities. - Going abroad. Participating in an internship that is probably unpaid. Getting a job just like my roommates. Alternatively just relaxing at home. It would be equally easy for me to do any of these. As usual though Im going in a different more intriguing direction. Unlike my usual summertime routine of working for my parents writing sporadic blog entries and staying at home Im going to go out on my own for the next three months. I will be staying in the heart of Chicago and escaping the suburban doldrums of lazy days. In addition to continuing to write posts Ill be testing my hypotheses. Does the blog allow me to earn money? Before the summer is over can I reach 1000 subscribers? Are some of the top online entrepreneurs available for interviews? Can Zen Habits accept a guest post from me? The days of spending most of my vacation watching TV and playing video games are long gone. That was when I was younger now is th...

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